Pre-Marital Relationships: How Haram are They??!

IF LOVE DEVELOPS FOR A REASON THAT IS NOT HARAM, A PERSON CANNOT BE BLAMED FOR THAT.

But the question is how is your love true and pure?

You text each other and talk late night for hours and hours, is that making it pure and strong? No! 

It is only bringing both of you close. You are being attracted towards each other. You will keep loosening the grip on the rope of your nafs. It will start from texting each other, calling late at night and obsessing over each other for some haram reasons. You will start thinking about each other late at night thinking you are with each other on a very romantic night, holding hands seeing into each other’s eyes. No stop! Don’t blush. This is not what you are supposed to do when you love someone. 

Why we choose a haram relationship over a halal relationship that Allah has written for us and we start finding love on our own and don’t wait for the right time and person to come in our life. 

It really shocks me that how people say that they are in love and they will end up marrying the same person. How can you be sure? How can they be sure about their lives and as if they know when they’re going to die. 

People stay in a haram relationship on pretext of marrying later. LOL 

How do you even know you will breathe enough to make it happen. What if you die earlier? 

We always expect and pray for a haram relationship to stay and last forever. Who promised you tomorrow? 

You just meet a girl/boy and everything seems so perfect. Now that you have that special person in your life, nothing else matters. All day he/she is on your mind. You check each others Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp last seen. 

You cherish him/her. He/She adores you, you both care for each other. You pretend that your love is pure and real. Is this the real love???

You risk losing your reputation, self-respect, Iman, and on top of everything you destroy your Akhirah. 

If you’re in love why would you destroy all these things for someone you say you love? 

These kind of relationships are hidden behind deleted messages and locked screens. Evil surrounds these relationships from loss reputation and destruction of duniya and akhirah. 

The best thing to do when you love someone is to get married to that person as soon as possible. It is not wrong to love/like someone as long as your intentions are not haraam. If you love someone stop being in a haraam relationship.

 

It will give you peace of mind and heartIt will be beneficial for your duniya and akhirahAs it is the best way to love someone in a halal way.

 

PEACE!

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